Odd One Out

Anna's first introduction to JCM began in the way that many students discover it: through their table at UNF’s Market Wednesdays. “I went because my friends enjoyed it,” they shared. Initially seeking connection, Anna quickly found that JCM offered much more than they anticipated.

Anna’s first event was a weekly Food for Thought meeting. “JCM is a melting pot,” they explained. “You feel comfortable there no matter what religion you are. It’s a group of people who care for each other and are there for one another.” Anna says that they felt that they had found community from their very first Food for Thought. “I saw how welcoming everyone is. Yes, it is about religion, but it’s more about the spirit of religion than the doctrine of the religion. It’s more about the community. People come because they want to be a part of the community.”

Participating in JCM’s spring break and fall retreat solidified Anna's sense of belonging. “It’s a time where you can become really good friends with people,” they noted. “You might not have strong friendships going into it, but during spring breaks and fall breaks you’re with these people for a few days or a week and you start bonding with people.” During these trips, Anaa felt accepted for who they were and felt like they could advocate for their needs without judgment or rejection.

“That’s a very healing thing about being in JCM, especially if you grew up in a religious household or grew up neurodiverse,” they said. “Being different, you sometimes have so much guilt and anxiety about not being perfect. JCM is really good at allowing you to come without the guilt. It’s like, ‘Come as you are, you are welcomed here, and you are loved here.’ It is a place that feels like home.” Anna appreciated this feeling of acceptance, and found value in a community that bridged the gaps between a diverse group of people. “Being neurodiverse, mentally ill, and gay, you are different from a lot of people. And so naturally, you’re the odd one out. At JCM, they understand that people are different, but they try to understand each other,” they said.

Looking ahead, Anna sees JCM as a lasting support system. “They’ll be your family when you’ve left and gone. Even if you graduate or transfer out, we’ll still be here for you. It’s a long-term community thing.” Your support allows this community to last. We are grateful for you.